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My not so unique millennial experience with faith

3/20/2012

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My name is Jared and this is my story...hope that's an alright way to start a blog. I grew up in a very religious home always knowing I was loved by parents and sibling alike. Although we were not rich by any stretch of the imagination I would have to say that we were comfortably middle class. I did occasionally receive discount lunch at school but with a dad that taught high school math and a stay at home mom I never really wanted for anything. In fact recently in a "family counseling" university course the professor had us go through a family privilege activity and I answered positively for every single item, I am 100% privileged! A huge part of my family culture was and is faith, especially of the LDS Christian variety. AKA Mormons, not the polygamist ones. Temples, forever families, The Book of Mormon (along with The Bible), contemporary prophets and apostles (like Joseph Smith and Brigham Young), and abstaining from alcohol/tobacco/sex (pre-marriage)/rated R movies were all parts of daily life.  Faith in Jesus Christ and knowledge of a loving God were instilled from my earliest memories. Most of my friends shared the same faith and I had a very happy childhood in a small world.

Yet now as a 29 year old young adult my faith story is not quite so simple. And I am not alone. My generation (go millennials!) is having a tough time connecting with religion the way our parents did. Of course there are many reasons for this. A recent survey shows why fellow Mormons are weighing the pros and cons of sticking around, echoing similar experiences for flagging faithful of all stripes. We live in an age of war that doesn't make sense to more and more young people. The long term economic crisis that hit right when I graduated from college has turned a lot of the societal truths upside down and brought an increased awareness to corruption, the emptiness of consumption and the problem of inequality. And for many privileged middle class millennials the recession has brought perhaps our first taste of an economic pinch and opened our eyes to the suffering that is present around us in the USA and in the world. Technology and social media have brought information of all kinds to our minds and have in some ways really shrunk our interdependent world yet at the same time exponentially increased our viewpoints as we can easily access millions of different thoughts and perspectives. The changing bond between religion and politics has left a sour taste in our mouths and many are carefully chewing deciding whether to spit it out or swallow it down convinced it's good for us.

Many issues weigh on my soul and cause me to question, ponder and pray. I was raised with the hope and belief that if I did these things my Heavenly Father would guide me to the truth. Yet as Gandhi learned in his lifelong pursuit of the divine "What may appear as truth to one person will often appear as untruth to another person. But that need not worry the seeker." I have very much grown into a seeker of truth and divinity.  Do I still believe in God? Yes, but it is no longer something I take for granted and my relationship with him/her (see what I did there) is constantly changing and evolving as I learn, live and grow. Am I still Mormon? Yes and no. I still identify as LDS but at times that brings me great pain and confusion along with peace and hope. I am not exclusively anything and do not believe in "The One true" blank. I am a Christian and a Mormon, but I am also very much a Buddhist aspiring to end all suffering as a Bodhisattva. I am a progressive Unitarian Universalist, a humanist promoting justice, reason and ethics, a Taoist seeking the unification and healing of all living things and so much more. This is my experience with faith in the 21st century.

My hope for this blog is to share my faith experiences and insights (or lack thereof) in various areas including: homosexuality, women, video games, climate change, inequality, spiritual gurus, technology, science, women, current issues and much more over the weeks and month to come. It is quite probable no one will read this and I'll have a nice "deep thoughts" by Jared, journal blog. However I do hope that you read then share comments, questions and most importantly your own experiences and that we may help each other strive toward being more compassionate, nearer to the divine human beings.
8 Comments
Jonathan link
3/21/2012 08:18:58 am

As a Latter-Day Saint with great respect for the beauties and value of other faiths, I look forward to your thoughts. I'm sure sometimes we'll agree and sometimes we won't, but knowing you, your thoughts will always be well thought-out, sincere, and worth reading.

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Amelia
3/21/2012 08:44:51 am

Jared you're such a good writer! I'll read your blog :)

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crystal
3/21/2012 09:08:29 am

I loved this. My faith was broken down and built up again in recent years, and it's not the same as it was, but it is more personal and simple. I know God loves me. I know I have a Savior. I focus on those beauties while trying to not get overwhelmed with the rest.

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Dan
3/21/2012 09:36:22 am

Love the blog Jared. Look forward to more.

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Amy :)
3/21/2012 10:28:35 am

I'm so excited about your new blog, Jared!!

Did you know you that you put "women" twice in the last paragraph? Whether you did it on purpose or not ... I love it and it made me smile, just like this ... :D

I'm excited to read more!!!

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jared
3/21/2012 12:05:26 pm

I really like women I guess haha, no that was not on purpose

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Jared
3/21/2012 12:00:46 pm

hey thanks you guys I really appreciate the positive thoughts...I am usually lacking in sticktuitiveness but I'll try to be good with this one so check it out and don't hesitate to comment, or coversate

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Jonathan link
3/21/2012 01:54:46 pm

Oh crap, I just saw the Mario mushroom. That's awesome.

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    My name is Jared I am an individual that struggles with faith in the 21st century. I find great meaning & joy from religion and spirituality yet also conflict & confusion in this pluralistic world full of suffering. This blog's aim is to examine and discuss current spiritual and political issues informed by an LDS, Christian and Buddhist background.

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